Affirming Therapy that meets you where you are.
Specializing in LGBTQIA+ experiences, Financial Therapy, and Psychedelic Therapy in Oakland and across California.
Reclaim your story in a space where all parts of you are welcome.
Let’s be honest, therapy can feel weird. It’s one of the most vulnerable relationships you can have, so it’s no surprise how important it is to find a therapist you feel safe with so you can show up fully—without hesitation.
Imagine a space where you don’t need to hold yourself back out of fear of being judged—a place where you don’t feel embarrassed for what you have to say. You finally have a space that is free of criticism and shame for who you are, what you think, how you feel, what you do, who you love, how you love, and all the ways in which you experience the world.
As a therapist, it’s important to me to show up for you in a way that honors all parts of you and helps you build a life that’s authentic to you.
I believe that our wellbeing is impacted by everything within and around us—our relationships, our health, our identities, where we live, where we work, our finances, the economy, systemic inequities, access to resources, culture, laws, policies, and societal norms. When we experience trauma, rejection, isolation, scarcity, judgement, oppression, marginalization, and disconnection, we can feel unworthy, confused, and lose confidence in our abilities. We can end up depressed, overly worried about the future, or stuck in a freeze, fight, flight, or fawn response. We can also be really hard on ourselves.
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Maybe one of these resonateS with you:
You’re queer, trans, poly, kinky, or neurodivergent—
…and you're tired of educating your therapist just to feel understood. You want someone who understands—someone you don’t have to code-switch for.
You’ve been living in survival mode for too long—
…navigating trauma, anxiety, or depression that never seems to let up. You’re ready to feel more grounded, connected, and in control of your life.
You’re overwhelmed by relationship dynamics—
…whether it’s navigating open relationships, boundary setting, or healing attachment wounds. You want clarity, tools, and a space to unpack it all without judgment.
You’ve been through a major financial shift—or money brings up shame, fear, or avoidance—
…and it’s left you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from the life you want to build. You’re ready to heal your relationship with money and feel more grounded, clear, and in charge.
You’re curious about going deeper since other things haven’t quite worked—
…and open to modalities like Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) to help you move through what’s felt stuck for far too long.
HI, I’M DEZ, and i can help.
We can build a safe space for you to heal and make decisions that better serve you.
I provide affirming therapy that is strengths-based, trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and solution-focused. My clients walk away from therapy with me feeling seen, heard, free to be themselves, confident, and with a plan. Let’s explore your unique story in a way that not only makes sense to you and brings you clarity, but in a way that is useful.
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Experience healing through therapy that is affirming, non-judgmental, and supportive.
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Heal your relationship with money to reduce financial stress and build financial confidence.
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Make meaning of your psychedelic experiences to support your mental health.
my specialties:
How therapy works.
1
Reach out
We’ll start with a free 20-minute consultation call to get to know each other and see if I’m the right person to support what you’re seeking help with.
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Get support
Depending on your needs, therapy may look like ongoing 1:1 sessions or focused therapy intensives—including options like ketamine-assisted therapy or financial therapy.
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See change
You might notice more ease in your relationships, less anxiety, improved mood, or a clearer sense of who you are and what you want—real shifts that last.
Ready to get started?
Whether you’ve experienced trauma, depression, anxiety, or difficulty in an area of your life, it doesn’t need to hold you back. Schedule a free consultation now. I’m here to listen and support you.